Hanover High students went all in for Spirit Week and Homecoming, held Oct. 28-Nov. 1. The costumes for the four themed days included red, white and blue; jammies and jerseys; ‘On Wednesdays, we wear pink’ from the movie Clueless; and Halloween costumes. The Junior Class won the pod decorating contest with Jungle Juniors, and students wearing their class colors crowded into the gym for a pep rally that featured riotous games and friendly trash talk.
The football team crushed North Quincy High School 42-7 in the Friday night Homecoming game, cheered on by a crowd of costumed fans in the endzone. Seniors Connor McCue and Ava Good were voted Homecoming king and queen at the Saturday night dance, which attendees said was the best in several years.
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The Hanover High School Cabaret concert, held October 15, transformed the cafeteria into a musical showcase. About 20 participants performed. The Pride of Hanover marching band played its current field show “Chicago,” and Vox displayed its choral talents. Other performances included “Enchanted” by Taylor Swift, sung by Avery Porro and Sophie Frattasio, and “Good Luck, Babe!” by Chappel Roan, performed by Henry Graham and Daniel Freedman. I joined Anna Dillon, Aevlyn Brangan, Ben Smith, Maria-Rita Silva and Luca Ciccolo for “Viva La Vida” by Coldplay. All of the performances were exceptional.
It is a great accomplishment to go in front of an audience and perform. Even after playing for many years on stage, it can still be nerve racking, but everyone did a great job. Some were even brave enough to play a solo. I talked to several of the performers to learn more about the atmosphere for the musical arts at HHS. I love performing in front of a crowd, whether it’s at a football game or a concert. It is fun and exhilarating, even though it can fill me with worries. But it’s all worth it when you see everyone supporting you and cheering you on.
“Before my first game, I was nervous but then I realized that I did good,” said Tory Jara, a freshman. “I feel very proud of myself after my performances due to all of the hard work that I put in everytime.”
Many band students believe, and I agree, that one of the best parts about being in band is showing what we can accomplish together. We all have to come together to make the band what it is and it takes teamwork. Another great thing about band is all of the friends you make. Going to class first period every morning with all the people I love is a great feeling, and everyone there shares a common passion, music! As a freshman, I wasn’t sure what to expect from high school band, but I very quickly realized that while I liked being in band before, I now love it. I am starting a new chapter that helped make the overall move to high school a little easier.
“The people you meet are amazing and they make you feel like you are part of the team,” said freshman Layla Ali. Music makes you come out of your shell and learn to communicate without words, she added.
The opening of the 2024-2025 NFL season for the Eastern American Football Conference has been slower than anticipated. Many of these teams’ unpleasant starts have left the rest of the season up in the air. Despite their sluggish starts, each franchise still has goals it hopes to achieve. Here’s what’s happening.
While the New England Patriots rebuild under a new and revamped offense, the New York Jets have looked to showcase a promising starting lineup for the season. The Miami Dolphins have been torn apart by injury and continue to fight for consistency. However, the Buffalo Bills have exhibited the most success, asserting dominance over the league and displaying a talented roster.
Throughout the uncertainty, the AFC East has shown licks of success and improvement, signing new players and filing career extensions as the trade deadline approaches. According to a report from NFL.com, the New York Jets, led by current HC Jeff Ulbrich, successfully acquired star wide receiver Davante Adams from the Las Vegas Raiders on October 15. Another crucial division move occurred recently, according to CNN.com, when Amari Cooper was traded from the Cleveland Browns to the Buffalo Bills.
The new additions and changes for these teams have improved the overall status of the division as the league approaches weeks 10 and 11. The current division standings in the AFC East show the Bills at the top with a steady 7-2 record. The Patriots, Dolphins and Jets lag behind with just three wins apiece.
In short, the AFC East has shown potential, even with an unfavorable start to the season. Through much discipline, these teams have the potential to develop every day for the remainder of the 18-week season.
The vote for president in the United States has never once been determined by the true popular vote but rather by the Electoral College system. When the topic of presidential elections is reinvigorated around Election Day, many Americans wonder why our president is not determined by our votes. Some even choose not to exercise their voting rights because they don’t believe their vote actually counts or matters. In some respects, they’re right.
In 1787, the Constitutional Convention came to the compromise known as the Electoral College. The issue was that nobody could agree on the best way to elect the president. Some wanted Congress to elect the president, and others wanted the people to choose the president directly. So the Electoral College system was born as an odd compromise between delegates from 237 years ago. In this system, a board of 535 electors each cast a ballot in accordance with the majority votes from the state they represent. To win the presidency, a candidate must win 270 of them. Additionally, in 48 states, all of the electoral votes go to only one candidate. For example, if the majority of Ohio votes Republican, all electoral votes would be given to the Republican candidate. This happens even if a decent amount of the state voted Democratic. Only Maine and Nebraska allow the electoral votes to be split.
The number of electors a state is allowed is determined by population. Heavily populated states such as California and Texas have more Electoral College votes than less populated states like Vermont and Wyoming. If you remember back to U.S. history class, this is why the Three-Fifths Compromise in 1787 was so significant. The vast majority of the southern states’ population was comprised of slaves, meaning if the slaves counted as people, the southern states would have more say in the Electoral College and have more representatives in Congress. The Fourteenth Amendment abolished the three-fifths compromise in 1868, which begs the question why do we still need the Electoral College?
In short, we don’t. It’s an antiquated system that deters people from voting and takes the voices away from millions of American voters. The foundation of our country is built on the principle that the people get to control the government. What we have with the Electoral College is a facade of a government elected by the people. According to the Pew Research Center, “More than six-in-ten Americans (63%) would instead prefer to see the winner of the presidential election be the person who wins the most votes nationally,” showing that the majority of Americans also wish to abolish the Electoral College to make their voices heard. Additionally, every other governmental election is determined by popular votes, even the election for the Senate and the House of Representatives, so we know that deciding an election by popular vote works. Why don’t we switch over?
In reality, it’s not so simple. The Electoral College is a part of the United States Constitution, which means we would have to move for an amendment to abolish it. For an amendment to be added to the Constitution, it must go through Congress, both the Senate and House of Representatives. With our Congress significantly divided, lawmakers have tried and failed to pass many bills in recent years. If a movement were made to make an amendment to abolish the Electoral College, it is likely that it would never make it through both chambers of Congress. USA Today writes, “There have been more than 700 federal proposals to change or abolish the Electoral College in U.S. history. . . But getting the remaining states to drop the Electoral College system in favor of the popular vote may be prohibitively difficult, as it would require buy-in from states that benefit from the system.” In all the years the Electoral College has been questioned, very little has been accomplished to change it.
In the past, some candidates have won the popular vote but lost the electoral vote. The most notorious example was the 2016 election between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump. Clinton won the popular vote by nearly 3 million votes, but Trump won the Electoral College and became president. This is an example of how this system fails the American people. In total, 62,985,106 Americans voted for Trump that year while 65,853,625 voted for Clinton as reported by a New York Times post, a difference of 3 million American voters. Although I disagree with the policies and morals of President Trump, this is not a complaint about him; this is a fault of the system. More people living in the country wanted a certain candidate, and were denied that victory because of the Electoral College, and that statement could go for any candidate that has ever won the popular vote and lost the electoral vote. It’s not only unfair and unjust, it’s un-American and unpatriotic.
The year is not 1787. It is 2024. The world has changed, and we as people have changed. We need to remember the values and ideologies that the United States was originally founded upon: a government for the people, of the people, and by the people. No more Electoral College failures; it’s time for us to make a change and take our country, and our leaders, back into our hands. It is the only way to ensure our democracy will last for years to come. As former President Barack Obama said, “Change will not come if we wait for some other person at some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.” We are the ones that have the power to make a change for the betterment of our government and our country.
By: Michael Sawaya, Jack Nadeau, Malakai Beliveau, Daniel Sierra and Cam Melone, ’26
Guest Writers
“If at the end of a war story you feel uplifted, or if you feel that some small bit of rectitude has been salvaged from the larger waste, then you have been made the victim of a very old and terrible lie,” wrote Tim O’Brien in The Things They Carried, his National Book-award winning novel based on his experiences as a soldier in the Vietnam War.
Our reading of this book in class motivated us to reflect on the horrors of war and what a soldier would carry on his body and in his heart in order to survive such a traumatic experience. We invited Robert (Bob) Melone, a U.S. military veteran who served in Afghanistan, and father of junior Cam Melone, to join our class and candidly discuss his experience.
“Everyone is human and deserves dignity.”
Robert (Bob) Melone, with his son, Cam, now a junior at HHS.
Mr. Melone always felt the obligation to join the military because his father and grandfather had served. In 1996, he graduated Silver Lake High School and was working at Papa Gino’s in Pembroke. He knew he wanted to go to college and the only way he could afford this was by joining the military. So he joined the National Guard in 1997 and began basic training in Missouri. He was deployed to Afghanistan in 2002 to fight the Taliban and al-Qaeda, two terrorist organizations.
He recalls landing his military plane at Bagram Air Force Base with no lights on, in total darkness, in order to evade the enemy. For the first three months of service, he and his platoon did not have the means to take a shower. Mr. Melone then embarked on a covert operation to locate a shower; he ended up finding one on another Air Force base.
Mr. Melone’s platoon was responsible for blowing up a cache of ammunition and bombs from al-Qaeda and the Taliban. His platoon detonated the enemy’s weaponry high up in the mountains of Afghanistan. The elevation was higher than Denver, Colorado, causing him to suffer from elevation fatigue for the first few days he was there. Mr. Melone found it difficult to breathe in the extreme altitudes of these high mountain ranges as he embarked on these dangerous missions.
Mr. Melone visits schoolchildren in Afghanistan.
As a combat medic, he made sure his platoon was taken care of properly. Not only this, but Mr. Melone also took good care of prisoners of war (POWs) who were on the side of America’s enemies. He cared for the very people who may have killed him if given the chance. He never lost sight of the humanity in people on the other “side.” For him, it wasn’t about how many people he hurt, it was about how many people he helped. “Everyone is human and deserves dignity,” he said
Overall, Mr. Melone reports that he and his American platoon colleagues were treated well by the Afghans, but he noted that he “wasn’t sure if some were bringing information back to the enemy.” Similar to Vietnam, there were times he did not know who the enemy was.
The women in Afghanistan wore burqas and were not allowed to speak to American servicemen, Mr. Melone recounted. The Afghan women were only allowed to speak amongst themselves or possibly to female soldiers. The young girls in Afghanistan attended school at the time; however, that is no longer the case. Mr. Melone reflected with regret on how women’s rights deteriorated over time. Since the U.S. withdrew from Afghanistan in 2021, the role of women has declined even further.
Mr. Melone and fellow soldiers enjoy the Italian platoon’s espresso bar.
Despite being in combat overseas, there were some moments of levity that Mr. Melone looks back on fondly. He remembers that the European troops were better equipped and had more luxuries than their American counterparts. He recalls visiting an Italian military platoon that had set up a full espresso bar. Mr. Melone and his fellow American servicemen indulged in the Italian hospitality and truly enjoyed the excellent quality coffee, espresso and cappuccino.
Mr. Melone’s platoon with their MaryLou’s delivery.
As a lover of coffee, this was one of the comforts that Mr. Melone missed most. He recalls writing a letter to the popular coffee chain Mary Lou’s asking them to send his platoon some coffee. Soon, he and his fellow servicemen received a massive supply of Mary Lou’s coffee direct from the South Shore.
Much like O’Brien recounts in The Things They Carried, Melone met his best friends in the military. They gave each other nicknames and used their sense of humor to deal with the stress and agony of war.
Also similar to O’Brien’s observations, Melone considered the overall sense of purpose in America’s presence in Afghanistan. At the time, Melone felt that Americans had a strong reason to be in Afghanistan: to free the Afghans from the oppression of the Taliban. Yet looking back, he feels doubt about what the purpose was. He reflected that, when it comes to war, “getting out is way harder than going in.”
An Afghan child walks his bull on a leash.
In The Things They Carried, Tim O’Brien writes about the tangible and intangible things he and his fellow troops carried with them while at war in Vietnam. Mr. Melone said during his year of service and to this day, he carries the Afghan children. He felt a deep connection to the innocent young lives that were trying to survive in very difficult conditions. He showed a photo of a very young boy walking a bull around on a leash, similar to the way Americans walk their dogs. He cherishes photos of the children of Afghanistan and has several photos framed around his house.
Physically, he carried a St. Jude prayer card from his cousin Patty that was originally their grandmother’s. This prayer asks God for help during difficult times. He carried this prayer card with him everywhere and it reminded him of his loved ones back home.
To this day. Mr. Melone carries the powerful emotion and experience with him, and is not afraid to show his vulnerability and how it deeply affected him. We witnessed this when he shared his family legacy of service, his love for the children of Afghanistan, and his love for his own children.
Ultimately, Mr. Melone is grateful for the opportunities the military gave him and is proud of his service. However, his overall message about war resonated with us all: “Anything that glorifies war is a lie. War is inhumane.” We are sure Tim O’Brien would agree.
There is no doubt that Hanover Girls Varsity Soccer has had amazing seasons. They won the Division 3 state championship in 2022 and made it to the state finals in 2023. But with the graduation of many seniors, this year’s team is facing a rebuilding season.
Led by senior captains Callie Baldwin, Hannah Geary and Sophie Schiller, the 2024 team has gone 7-4-1 in its first 12 games, and was ranked 8th in the Oct. 8 MIAA state power rankings. In an interview with The Hawk, Baldwin, Geary and senior Savannah Draheim agreed the 2024 team has had a slow start and is trying to find its rhythm.
The team started the season with a tie and a loss, won the next five games and then lost two back to back before winning the next two. The rollercoaster season can be attributed in part to the loss of nine seniors to graduation, including goalie Natalie Mutschler. Despite the girls’ struggle to find their groove, there have been bright spots. Junior Maelyn Foley was named a Boston Globe Eastern Mass Player of the Week on Sept 25 for scoring one goal in a 2-1 league win against Silver Lake and two in a 2-1 defeat of North Quincy.
When asked their goals for this year, Draheim said, “We want to win the league, but have to beat Scituate on senior night.” That big game is scheduled for Oct. 22 at 6:30 pm.
When the team won the state championship in 2022, it was the first title in 20 years. The 1-0 loss to Norwell in the 2023 title game was a heartbreaker after an exciting tournament run.
The regular season ends Oct. 25. Schedule and scores can be found on Arbiter Sports or by following Hanover HS Athletics on X, formerly Twitter.
With this year’s presidential election being at the forefront of news media nationwide, it’s important to remember what this really means. We, as a nation, are voting to put the best representation of what the United States is and what the United States stands for into our highest executive seat. We are giving that person the power to control policies that touch every aspect of our lives. This person needs to be reasonable, intelligent, honest, and most importantly, strong. The two major candidates are Democrat Kamala Harris and Republican Donald Trump. Both candidates certainly have characteristics of a good leader, and, of course, they both have their flaws. So how do you decide which one to support?
The news media, as indifferent as it likes to appear, is always biased. It’s a known fact that Fox News tends to be “right-leaning” while CNN tends to sway to the “left.” Due to this, if you get your information solely from one of those sources, you cannot get a complete, honest picture. Furthermore, even if you watch both stations, it can get confusing. An action or event that is glorified by one news outlet could be condemned by the other. How do you tell which one is accurate, which one is skewed, and which one is closest to the truth? It seems as though people are willing to believe anything if it is presented by a well-known source, despite the questionable reliability of said source.
It is this willingness to believe anything a news outlet or a candidate says, no matter how absurd, that has doomed America, in my opinion. That is why I believe that education about politics should be encouraged. This has not always been supported in all public schools, however. Some argue that discussing topics such as politics or religion in school is indoctrination, which has caused many debates across the country in recent years. It is not indoctrination to be taught how the United States government works. It is not indoctrination to present a person with all the factual information, good and bad, and from there allow the person to develop their personal opinion, set of beliefs, and value system. I believe this education starts with parents.
I am fortunate that in my home, I am encouraged to speak openly about my beliefs. I don’t always agree with my parents. Sometimes family dinners turn into full-on debate sessions. I like this intellectual exercise, and although my parents don’t always agree with me, they always appreciate my willingness to make an argument for something in which I believe. In my home, individuality, education, and disagreement are valued and even encouraged. My social worker mother and registered nurse father believe this is how we grow. We have to be open to accepting the perspectives of others as valid and valuable even when we may disagree with every fiber of our being. That is the beauty of living in this country – we are ALL entitled to our [political] opinions. In many homes, politics is either taboo or not up for discussion; children must believe what their parents believe, becoming what could be perceived as carbon copies of their parents. This occurs at both extremes of the spectrum, and maybe I am also a product of my parents’ liberal views. I believe that no parent or adult should force their beliefs on children but rather encourage young people’s intellectual growth through open and raw discourse on controversial topics.
Let me give you a benign example of what I mean when I refer to involuntary indoctrination. I was sitting in the car with my mom one day, with the radio playing some random station. I didn’t recognize the song, but my mom did. It was Elton John. “Ugh, I hate Elton John,” my mom said, frustrated, and changed the station. In my head, that statement translated to Elton John is a bad artist. If my mom didn’t like him, then he obviously isn’t very good. I worship the ground my mother walks on and I value her opinion so much that I used to accept what she said as truth and fact. I’ve since learned that my mom’s opinions are not the only opinions out there, and just because she doesn’t like something doesn’t mean that I am not allowed to like it. I don’t think my mom was forcing me to also dislike Elton John, but children are impressionable, and children pick up on what their parents say. This is why I encourage people, regardless of what you believe or what values you have, to always be open to calm and respectful discussion so that young people can learn what cooperative discourse looks like.
In recent years, I have observed that politics is a continuing taboo in everyday life. Adults don’t want to discuss it with children and adolescents don’t want to discuss it with adults. This appears to be due to fear of confrontation or disagreement. In my opinion, this is the most dangerous fear in American society. We cannot be afraid to discuss controversial topics such as politics. We have to embrace the good and bad,learn and accept from what is, and move on stronger and smarter with a more comprehensive understanding of ourselves and others. It is of utmost importance to talk about politics for the sake of our country. Adolescents need to be educated on controversial topics so that when they become adults they can make informed and mature decisions about what they support and how they choose to exercise that right as Americans.
This country is special for so many reasons, the main one being that we are allowed to disagree with each other and our leaders. A government run by the people is one that is stronger than any other, which is why we cannot lose it. Nothing is accomplished by ignoring big topics or major problems because they make you uncomfortable. I am fortunate enough to have grown up in a household where I am free to formulate my own opinions, and that is valued. My parents challenge me to think critically about controversial topics and come to my own conclusions rather than accept their opinions as undeniable truth and fact. No matter which candidate you choose to support this upcoming election, I implore you to be open to acknowledging and accepting the opinions of others. Remember that it is because of our democratic society that we are able to formulate our own unique perspectives on every concept presented to us. To preserve what the United States is and what we stand for, educate yourself, educate your friends and family, and most importantly, educate your children. Your children will one day lead this country, so be mindful of your words and actions, as well as the criticisms you openly share in front of your children, because they are always listening. As composer Stephen Sondheim famously wrote in his musical masterpiece Into the Woods, “Be careful the things you say, children will listen. Be careful the things you do, children will see and learn. Children may not obey, but children will listen. Children will look to you for which way to turn to learn what to be. Careful before you say ‘listen to me,’ children will listen.”
The first four weeks of the 2024-2025 NFL season have startled many fans, from contract negotiation standoffs to exhilarating games dragging into overtime. Throughout it all, the New England Patriots have looked to establish themselves above the bottom teams in the league. Under the brand-new leadership of head coach Jerod Mayo, the Patriots have entered the season with a completely revamped offense and an even stronger defense.
The team has worked through the off-season to recruit new players, such as securing Drake Maye, the third pick in the NFL draft and the “Quarterback of the future.” With other key additions and better strategic improvements, the Patriots are trying to deliver a promising opening season for fans. The Patriots aim to make a strong statement for the future, with a bright young team ready to perform at the highest level possible.
With a road win against Cincinnati, the Patriots earned their first opening weekend victory since beating Miami at home in 2020. The win was the fourth over Cincinnati in Patriots’ history and shut down criticism from opposing fans.
However, the optimism for the season took a hit in the next three games, with the team falling to 1-3. Although the Patriots have been lackluster in their most recent games, players remain motivated to improve and grow. “I am the biggest team player, if you ever see me on the sideline in a game, I’m the biggest team player,” said star wide receiver Demario Douglas in a Patriots.com interview after the team’s close loss to the Seattle Seahawks in week 2. “Just go out there and play. Whatever coach asks me to do, I’m going to do.”
Ultimately, the New England Patriots have chosen to undertake a slow rebuild during the 2024 season, under the command of Mayo and starting veteran quarterback Jacoby Brisset. While there have been flashes of potential, inconsistency has plagued the overall performance of this new and inexperienced team. The future is bright, but the promise of this season may be dim.
Students often complain when our school bathrooms are closed and they have to walk to a different floor or down to the cafeteria to find one open. But in an interview with Principal Mattos and custodian Fabz Saldanha last week, I learned that students are often the ones responsible for the closures.
In the past, Hanover High School regularly had just one bathroom open per floor to minimize issues with students gathering, creating messes and getting into trouble. Also in the past, teachers were assigned duties to monitor the halls and bathrooms. Last spring, concerns about the rotating closed bathrooms were brought to the HHS School Council (composed of students, teachers and community members) and the HHS Student Advisory Council. This led the administration to open all bathrooms after announcements were made to the student body about care and maintenance.
“Students control what happens,” Mr. Mattos said, echoing a message he gave during assemblies on the first day of school. “If students respected the bathrooms, they would be open forever. They only get closed for cleaning and maintenance as needed.”
Unfortunately, only three days into the school year, the bathroom in the World Language wing was seriously vandalized. A student or students pulled the stall dividers right out of the wall. Damage like this has cost the school thousands of dollars in the past, Mr. Mattos said. With the school budget tight this year, and a busy maintenance staff serving all the school buildings, it’s going to take time to fix. That bathroom has been locked since.
While students who commit vandalism are just a small part of the school population, Mr. Mattos said, it’s hard to catch them because the general law prohibits cameras in the bathrooms. Due to budget cuts, the school also doesn’t have enough staff to constantly monitor the spaces.
Aside from that closure, the school has been handling the issue much better than years prior, Mr. Mattos said. I noticed one day in September when both bathrooms on the second floor were closed at the same time, leading students to have to walk farther. But Mr. Saldanha said that was a temporary closure because a motion-activated sink needed repair; town health officials say a bathroom must be closed if a sink or toilet is not working.
The metal gates were installed in 2022 to lock and secure bathrooms as needed, but the idea of closing a school bathroom for cleaning or a repair is not new. Prior to that, the school had used movable plastic barriers for years, but students would simply push them aside and enter the bathrooms. “With the gates, bathroom maintenance has been much better,” Mr. Mattos said.
We should all be aware by now that the administration and custodians are not in the wrong to close the bathrooms when issues occur. It’s up to students to treat the bathrooms with respect. Having a clean, working bathroom close to your classroom is a privilege, not a given. If you are responsible and behave in the bathrooms, they will stay open. Throw your trash in the bins. Do not put unflushable items in the toilets. Show courtesy to your classmates who use the bathrooms and to the custodians who keep them clean. If only as much as one student misbehaves in the bathrooms, they are all at risk of being closed!
I have done my part in covering this issue. Now it is your turn to do yours!
According to a recent survey by CBS News, 25 percent of people say that Halloween is their favorite holiday. Despite this, many give up on the tradition of trick or treating at some point during their teenage years. This tends to happen for a few reasons, including embarrassment over participating in a ‘childish’ activity, social pressure to stop, and interest in other activities such as parties or hanging out with friends. As a high schooler myself, I too have elected to stop trick or treating. Instead I will be handing out candy at my door, which still allows me to dress up and enjoy the festivities. The motivations for children to stop trick or treating are fairly straightforward, but their parents’ views on that decision are a bit more varied.
The two graphs below show information taken from an informal survey of eight Hanover High School parents comparing the ages their children stopped trick or treating to the age they believe it is best to stop trick or treating.
While many parents seemed to agree that sometime in high school is, in fact, the right age to stop participating in the tradition, most also expressed sadness that their children had given up trick or treating.
“Like a part of their childhood was lost forever,” said the mother of junior Sienna Lamond.
Adam Oliver, another parent in the Hanover community, said he was perfectly fine with older kids trick or treating around the neighborhood. “As long as they’re not interfering with the younger kids having fun,” he said.
The rest of the parents surveyed echoed this statement, agreeing that older groups of teenagers trick or treating is only a problem when they decide to cause mischief or be disrespectful.
While parents and their kids seem to agree on the general age that it is appropriate to stop trick or treating, that decision has as much of an impact on the adults who are watching their children grow up, as on the kids themselves. As grandmother Kathy Kacergis put it, “you have to keep the spirit of fun things alive,” which sums up the bittersweet sentiment of the parents on this topic.
